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孩子也有自尊心，而且对孩子自尊心的伤害有可能影响他的一生，我们是否注意了呢？
Harmful:Because I said so！
Beneficial:I know you want to play a little more,but we have to go to see grandma.
不要说：这是我说的，你要听！
而是说：我当然知道你想多玩会儿，不过，我们真的该去看看外婆哦~
Harmful:Stop crying.
Beneficial:I know how bad you feel.I'd be sad too.
不要说：把眼泪给我收回去！
而是说：我知道你很伤心，毕竟，我也很难过~
Harmful:If you don't eat your cereal,you'll stay weak and small.
Beneficial:If you eat your cereal,you'll be clever and strong like dad.
不要说：你要是吃不完饭，就会长得挫！
而是说：如果你好好吃饭，一定会像爸爸一样聪明和强壮~
Harmful:You're doing it it to me!
Beneficial:Let me show you a neat trick to do it quickly.
不要说：你这么做错了！把它给我！
而是说：我有个小技巧，让我来展示一下，如何搭得更快些吧~
Harmful:I see you're anxious.
Beneficial:Let's talk about it.
不要说：你怎么这么忧虑。
而是说：我们谈谈这个问题吧~
Harmful:Let's get long do I have to wait for you?
Beneficial:Race you to get dressed and ready!
不要说：赶紧出发！你到底还要让我等你多久？
而是说：让我们比赛看看谁先准备好出门~
Harmful:Take it！Just stop crying!
Beneficial:I understand,but you know I can't allow it.
不要说：给你，不准哭了！
而是说：我理解你的心情，不过，你也知道，我不能允许你这样做~
Harmful:If you wash the dishes,I'll give you candy.
Beneficial:Remember when you washed the dishes the other day?You helped me so much!
不要说：你洗完了这些餐具，我就给你糖果吃！
而是说：你记得你那天帮我把餐具洗干净了吗？你简直帮了我一个大忙呢~
Harmful:How do I know?
Beneficial:I don't know that yet,but I'll tell you when I find out.
不要说：你问我，我问谁去？！
而是说：我也不知道这个问题，不如，我找到答案后，和你分享？
Harmful:Stop watching TV.
Beneficial:Let's go and play a game!
不要说：不准再看电视了！
而是说：一起去玩游戏吧？
Harmful:Look what you've done!
Beneficial:I know you didn't mean to,but be more careful next time.
不要说：看看你惹的祸！
而是说：我知道你本意不是像这样，但是下次记得小心些~
Harmful:Look at always come back home on time,unlike you.
Beneficial:Try to come back on 's very important.
不要说：看看人家小明，从来都是按时回家，哪像你？！
而是说：一定要尽量按时回家哦，这很重要呢~
